When they use You, You are 50% accountable.
I learn more about people when I discover that his may be who they really are.
I have suffered fools gladly when I did not know better.
I have loved damaged people.
I have rescued damaged people.
Mostly because I know what it is like to have no support, no resources and to be alone.
However, having said that...I have also fallen victim to narcissists, sociopaths, energy vampires and toxic individuals using this blanket method.
At the end of the day, we are who we are. Boundaries and trusting your instincts are crucial.
I have learned that I may have attracted certain situations by being complcit.
I have learned that I need to heal from the complex PTSD, so as to not encounter those that automatically trigger me.
Most importantly, I have found tools like the grey rock method, letting go and going no contact have been the most helpful while detaching from the drama others bring.
And now, that I know better...I make wiser choices.
When they show You who they are, believe them the first time and walk away.
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